审视自己

我想，自己又进入低潮期。

人在低潮期时，总是有点慌乱无助拼命想抓到浮板的感觉。

逛学弟的部落格，找到的连接，看看无妨。

Your view on yourself:

You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

Success in your career is not the most important thing in life. You are content with what you have and think that being with someone you love is more than spending all of your precious time just working.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:

You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.

好吧，结果同我做过的心理测验大同小异。

不过，脑海中一直想着刚刚在网页连接中游走时看见的一段话：搞政治的人，跟其他很多撰写在畅销书籍排行榜中名列前茅的工具书的大师级作家，在本质上同星座学家和其他预言家一样，分析的东西说的话要很空泛、越空泛越好，这样一般大众就可以自己对号入座，然后拼命地大赞这些政治人和作家好棒，掀起一股风靡热潮。

当然，大众也会自己为自己洗脑，在做过无数次心理测验后自认为自己是个怎么样的人--热心、可爱、自信、自卑、冷漠、可恶等等等。

所以从不知道什么时候开始，我已经很少做心理测验，而且开始怀疑那些“制造”心里测验的人，是怎么样规划出一套程序，把不同的选项归类为一种特定的性格。

没有人，可以比自己更了解自己吧？

你喜欢什么、不喜欢什么、自己的底线究竟在那里，只有自己清楚。

在低潮的时候，静静地扪心自问，或许比较有效。

就像同事说的，我就是这样“挑工”（福建话发音）--明明知道自己要什么，就是喜欢问身边的人的意见，然后驳斥他们的意见，从而更坚定自己的意见。

我知道，这样做很无谓。

不过，这就是我。